Being delusional isn't a bad thing

So, we all know being delusional is a trend which is being frowned upon, as people just see it as living in. a dream world, and many people need to ‘get back in touch with reality’ but is it really a bad thing?

I think living in a world of delusion is fun. Don’t get me wrong I don’t live in the delusion of

something like I’m a millionaire who has 3 kids and is a stay-at-home mum (a girl can dream) but if you live in this dream state mindset that ‘everything will be okay’ which is the one I'm in. I know it’s annoying when people are going through a tough time for someone to just come out with the ‘don’t stress!’ but when faced with something bad it won’t hurt you to try and reassure yourself that there could be worse things going on and look the facts of the situation.

Many of my friends always regard me as delusional, but I must say for the first time in around 3 years that I’m genuinely happy and content with my life. I fully believe that if something isn’t meant for you it won’t be for you.

You didn’t get your dream job? Don’t worry, there may be a better opportunity around the corner, and you just have to take this hit to get it.

Your situationship has ended? It probably wasn’t the best thing for you to be in, do you really want to be someone's standby girlfriend or boyfriend for the rest of your life? Probably not, if they really wanted to trust me they would.

You missed your train home? You never know what’s going to happen, if you missed that train while you’re waiting for the next one go and get a coffee and sit and reflect, it may be telling you that sometimes you need to slow down.

I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, it was something I stuck with when getting into my current relationship, if someone wants to be with you they will and if they don’t, it’s not the right person, pick yourself up and move on. Treat everything as a lesson.

Once you start to live like this you do start to look and everything in a more positive light if I didn’t get cheated on by my previous situationship I wouldn’t have gone on Tinder that night and met the person I’m now with.

I’m not saying that you don’t have to work for what you want because, trust me I have worked to get every job and thing that has come to be, but every time I’ve been rejected or failed something it led to something more beneficial for me in that moment in time.

You have to go through the bad to get to the good, therefore try not to stress about everything in your life, what is meant to be for you will happen.

Step back, relax and just watch your life unfold.